So I started with this article and ended up with a word study of flattery.
The article is summing up ‘research’. I probably won’t read the book because like a lot of research it’s just common sense. Someone said that all this social science research is like climbing a mountain. We do all this study and data and experiments, and when we get to the top of the mountain, the Biblical Christians were there the whole time. Human nature doesn’t change. Though modern humans like the religious trappings of science so here they are.
G. K. Chesterton said “Professionals make you want to sit back and watch, amateurs make you want to join in.” And i think that is a necessary idea in worship music. To be an ‘amateur’ is to do it for the love of the thing. To be a professional is to do it for the money. And as such I have a lot of problems with the professional version of everything including worship music.
It is strange that the modern professional looks a lot like the old priest. They are up there, we are down here. They have special access to god, or truth and we just go along. They make us feel good, forgiven, whatever, we just receive it and go about our daily tasks. Which I suppose is to be a priest of our segment of reality.
I just find the whole thing so weird. The word vernacular used to mean the language of the common people. Now it means the language of the children. We have a whole nation of people with advanced degrees, though in common sense or citizenship they have about an 8th grade education. In theology it’s maybe a 4th grade education and in music maybe a 2nd grade education. We did this, by separating out ‘children’s church’ or ‘Sunday school’ or ‘youth group’ or the ‘college group’. Always learning never coming to the knowledge. Tossed too and fro. We didn’t teach music, and now the vernacular is childish music. . . sung by the professionals, the priests.
Simple four cord repetitions are dressed up in amazingly complex technical presentations of light and sound. Lasers, flood lights, speakers, fog machines all driven by elaborate computers. Yet the message, the content, is simplified. Do we stop using computers because the average person doesn’t have a clue how they work? Why advance technology and simplified content? Why are we advancing in technology but not in intellectual complexity?
I just marvel as praise bands loftily twist the common version of a song into their own jazz like riffs, as the people try to sing along. If only we had a way of communicating what they were doing to the congregation, a written language of music perhaps. But we do, and since they 9th century, that language has been developed and it progressed to where it is today. Yet sometime in the last few decades we started going backwards. We stopped teaching it. Are people getting less intelligent? Is the brain of the common man less capable than he was a few generations ago? I doubt it, and given the luxuries we enjoy, he actually has far more time to learn such things. As St. Thomas said, the average man is not responsible before God for knowing advanced theology, he has to spend his time making a living. Scratching a livelihood out of this cursed earth. But today we don’t have this excuse. So what is our excuse?
I wonder too about all the verses in the Bible condemning flattery. But isn’t this praise music just aural flattery? Music has a unique ability to control us. Listening to music is one of the few tasks which stimulates. every part of the brain at the same time. It’s like a drug. Isn’t making people feel good without the truth a problem?
This thought took me down the rabbit hole, a journey of texts:
Job 17:5 He that speaketh flattery to his friends, even the eyes of his children shall fail.
Dan. 11:21 And in his estate shall stand up a vile person, to whom they shall not give the honor of the kingdom: but he shall come in peaceably, and obtain the kingdom by flatteries.
Dan. 11:32 And such as do wickedly against the covenant shall he corrupt by flatteries: but the people that do know their God shall be strong, and do exploits.
Dan. 11:34 When they stumble, they shall receive a little help. And many shall join themselves to them with flattery.
Job 32:21,22 Let me not, I pray you, accept any man’s person, neither let me give flattering titles unto man. For I know not to give flattering titles; in so doing my maker would soon take me away.
Psa. 5:9 For there is no faithfulness in their mouth; their inward part is very wickedness; their throat is an open sepulcher; they flatter with their tongue.
Psa. 12:2,3 They speak vanity every one with his neighbor: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak. The LORD shall cut off all flattering lips, and the tongue that speaketh proud things:
Psa. 78:36 Nevertheless they did flatter him with their mouth, and they lied unto him with their tongues.
Prov. 26:28 A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin.
Ezek. 12:24 For there shall be no more any vain vision nor flattering divination within the house of Israel.
1Th. 2:5 For neither at any time used we flattering words, as ye know, nor a cloak of covetousness; God is witness:
Flattery is clearly condemned in the Bible. Looking at the hebrew word for flattery חֵקֶל cheleq most of the time it is translated ‘part’ or ‘portion’ and that is a good connection. Flattery is telling the partial truth. Flattery tells you the parts you want to hear and hides the realities. It shows you the glistering product without showing you the cost. That’s how sin works, it tries to connect evil with pleasure. That’s why discipline is so necessary. It rightly connects pain, as in a spanking, with the evil you committed. If you hit your sister it might make you feel good, but your parents are there to set the record straight by showing you that it actually makes your bottom feel bad.
Modern music hides the bad. It hides the fact that Christ and thereby his followers, had pain and suffering for their faith. The world tries to discipline us too, in it’s way. Stand up for Christ and they will knock you down. The Christian must not learn these lessons. The adult must not be led by his feelings, by this flattery. The Psalms are full of enemies, coming to destroy the psalmist, often David. We know what this was like from the history books. David was under assault, he was the rightful king yet he fled from Saul. He was in fear for his life. There was much suffering and grief. This didn’t feel good. But this was true faithfulness. Seeking a faith without this aspect is seeking flattery.
Prov. 6:24 To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman.
Prov. 7:21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
The ‘adulterous woman’ is connected with flattery. Her lips tell the tale of pleasure, but really she is asking for sin and the corruption, disease, and pain that always go along with it. She doesn’t want to give you glory as a crown on your head and bear you the fruit of children. She wants to give you momentary pleasure and use you up, exploit you for money.
The Greeks got this to some degree in the myth of the Sirens. The Sirens lured the sailors to their shores with their sweet music, but beneath the water lied the rocks which destroyed their ships. So we get our word ‘siren’ which is a warning. And that is the truth, the siren song should be a warning. Good feelings should be a warning too, what are they trying to sell you by buttering you up? What lies are they trying to get away with under those smooth words?
So if you have a religion built on feeling good, on aural pleasure. What happens when it is tested? It doesn’t like the conflict. Something must be wrong. This feels bad, I must change so that I conform to the world. I must follow the world and not the Word of God. In short it has no faith. What happens when this religion is faced with suffering? It’s can’t cope it questions god, it runs away. Sell all that I have? That doesn’t sound nice. Leave my father to bury himself? That’s not very warm and fuzzy. Lay down my life? Are you serious?
The Greeks and most ancients were suspicious of feelings. Feelings were connected with lusts of the earthy body. They minimized those bodily desires. Reason was the ultimate they said. But we have gone to the other extreme, we throw out all reason, well except in the inner workings of our computers. We pursue feelings at all cost. But Christianity should be both, logic and emotion; body and mind. Like an appreciation for music, feelings must be trained and calibrated. They don’t just exist. People aren’t born knowing how to read, or reason, or think, in music or any field. Our feelings or musical abilities don’t come preprogrammed to God’s setting. They must be trained and taught by hard work. We shouldn’t treat our bad training as a gift from God. Being titillated by something bad is not a God-given reality, it is a human failure. Why don’t we want to make better men?
There is another option besides flattery, that is smoothness without truth. There is smoothness with truth. There is beautiful music which carries the truth. Again Chesterton said, “Nine times out of ten, the coarse word is the word that condemns an evil and the refined word the word that excuses it.” And so we should beware, but we can have both. Wisdom has both:
Prov. 31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness
We should desire this maturity as Paul says, grow up into both truth and love. But love isn’t just a good feeling it’s serious work against your own feelings:
Eph. 4:14,15 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive; But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
I Tim 2:7,8 (I speak the truth in Christ, and lie not;) a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and verity. I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.
Paul speaks the truth, and what is the truth? Pray with holy hand lifted up. We want to go on and discuss how active we can be in the church service. We want to talk about expressing ourselves. But the whole point is your hands should be holy, they should be clean. You must offer up a clean self, without wrath or doubting. Confess your sins at the alter, stop doing evil with your hands and then offer those hands up to God.
I Tim. 2:12-15 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
We want to get as men women in our service as we can, it makes us feel good. But Paul says women should express their faith in the congregation by faithful children. And he means adult children, your toddler doesn’t have a problem with drunkenness. So women you want to make a splash in the worship service? Raise holy children. Where are the faithful children carrying on the tradition of rich hymn singing? Where are the children who can produce the more excellent music for the next generation? It is still true that a majority of pop singers come out of the church, because that is the only place any music training happens these days, but it could far better. It’s just so much harder to be good than to be politically correct. Dang it!
I John 3:18 Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
James 2:14-17 What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.
Reminds me of praise songs “here I am to worship” “I will give you all my worship” But where is it. When does this happen? You talk about giving everything to God and it makes you feel good, but why don’t you show me? Is it just talk and lyrics or is it something that will actually encourage you to do the right thing when it comes down to it? Is the feeling of the service just a salve which makes you think your sins aren’t all that bad. Does the feeling of the music just overshadow the feeling of your guilt without real repentance? The proof is in the pudding. Is the pudding of life you make next week more holy than it was this week? If not, that’s not fruit.
It’s ok to take pride in Christ, to feel good about his work in your life. But the feelings should not be a substitute for holiness, they should be the result.