I would like to defend the so-called, the self-styled, the soi-disant, “gender pay-gap.” I realize this is an impossible task, and not just because the gap does not exist. I would defend it even if it did exist, for, like Santa Clause, I believe it did exist at one time. In order to criticize the pay-gap, we must criticize millions of people who led better lives than we lead. We foolish moderns criticizes them because, “slavery”. Like most of our idiotic thinking, we insert one sarcastic, arrogant word, for millions of well thought out arguments. But the fact is they, our Christian ancestors, created a culture in which marriage was sacred, divorce was hard, virginity was prized and men where encouraged to fight for their families in war and in work. The pay-gap encouraged all of these things. Women more dependent on men are more likely to say with a man in marriage, than to float around on their own. When marriage is seen as the only good way for men and women to live together virginity is more prized, you put on your best self when the alternative is poor spinsterhood. When men have a women, their woman, standing by them, amazing things happen. They create whole new civilizations and wipe out tremendous evils. It took a long time to erect this edifice and we are all the beneficiaries of their work. But the feminists had a different agenda, so they attacked this edifice. And after a few generations of feminists making the pay-gap argument, where are we? Are we better off? I don’t think so. The pay gap did not favor men unfairly it favored families over the individual. This was attacked, in order to foster all the “-isms”, the individual must be supreme, institutions like the family must be broken down.
Today the family is in shambles. Laws are written to undermine the family in favor of the individual and radical egalitarianism. The worst part is Christians going along with all this. Do you really think that undermining the family in favor of some sort of radical equality is what Scripture is about? Do you really think that “he made them male and female” means “we are all the same in every way” . Well the sad result is this video. Men are playing video games and committing suicide. Is this ok because women are now ‘equal’ and ‘advancing’? Is it ok that families no longer stick together? It seems like most people don’t care, most Christians don’t care, and even most Churches don’t care. Caring will get funny looks from everyone who matters in this world. Caring will get you kicked out of the clique. So it’s easier to sit back and go with the flow, even though we are about to go over the fourth waterfall to yet worse fate.
The sad reality is that no one is home raising the children. The women are all of pretending their careers are their children, and we all suffer from the tyranny they build. G. K. Chesterton expounds on this idea in his wonderful book What’s Wrong With the World:
“But though the essential of the woman’s task is universality, this does not, of course, prevent her from having one or two severe though largely wholesome prejudices. She has, on the whole, been more conscious than man that she is only one half of humanity; but she has expressed it (if one may say so of a lady) by getting her teeth into the two or three things which she thinks she stands for. I would observe here in parenthesis that much of the recent official trouble about women has arisen from the fact that they transfer to things of doubt and reason that sacred stubbornness only proper to the primary things which a woman was set to guard. One’s own children, one’s own altar, ought to be a matter of principle– or if you like, a matter of prejudice. On the other hand, who wrote Junius’s Letters ought not to be a principle or a prejudice, it ought to be a matter of free and almost indifferent inquiry. But take an energetic modern girl secretary to a league to show that George III wrote Junius, and in three months she will believe it, too, out of mere loyalty to her employers. Modern women defend their office with all the fierceness of domesticity. They fight for desk and typewriter as for hearth and home, and develop a sort of wolfish wifehood on behalf of the invisible head of the firm. That is why they do office work so well; and that is why they ought not to do it.”
Can we honestly say that the world needs more professional women enforcing arbitrary rules and regulations as if we were all their children? Do we have an excess of stellar young people? Women must put their effort in one or the other. The problem of the Millennial is almost universally attested, no one disagrees that the stereotypes are true. Young people have no respect for anything, often including themselves, and certainly for their elders and their progeny. Children have become an Instagram accessory, and the proof is in the pudding. You can’t talk to these people, rely on these people or teach these people anything. They are a heard cowering at the smallest obstacle. And this is the fruit of the feminist movement. These people would lose World War II if it were fought today, even if we could take our technology back and fight the Axis powers of 1940. That is if we would even fight. I doubt we would have the guts. As is proven by our inability even to endure current drone wars.
Now the mess we find ourselves in is deeper by the minute. It will take generations to rebuild. But we must start the work immediately. We must begin to see the roles of men and women as our Christian ancestors did. They worked their fingers to the bone attempting to make a better world for their children, by following the Biblical commands as best they could. Their success has become our greatest liability, because we have chosen to coast on their efforts. Or worse destroy them because we are ignorant of the past and only care about making friends with this evil world.
Paying heads of household more money, encourages men to step up and take positions in the work force and it encourages women to stay home. It is a good idea. It has been tried and tested, it works. Our current experiment with radical egalitarianism has failed. Why keep going down this road? Do you really want to see a next generation so lame that even millennials make fun of it? Or more likely, an entire country taken over without a fight by China?
Oh you will object that making women subject to men will encourage women to be abused. But women are already abused, far more so than the vibrant Christian culture of the past. Every women is passed around in the dating world like a common prostitute, accumulating baggage at every stop until she finally dumps it all on the last guy and her 1.2 designer millennials. Women hit 40 and realize they missed out on the most important things by not having kids. Twenty to thirty percent of these women are on anti-depressants, many trying to run away from the horrors of their abortions. Abortions performed to facilitate this career-over-family insanity.
I have made many cultural arguments, because this is more of a cultural issue. Most of humanity has had no problem figuring this out. The realities of premodern life revealed the reality that women are the weaker sex far more blatantly than our mechanized world is willing to admit. Even in the 50’s before power steering women were far more limited in where they could go and what they could do. They simply couldn’t operate a car in many normal circumstances, to say nothing of the many problems that could arise. There were breakdowns, wrecks, nefarious characters, inclement weather and wild animals. And these are just the travails of travel, one aspect of life.
Paul speaks of women as the “weaker vessel” to Peter(I Peter 3:7), and does not have to explain himself. Everyone knew what he means. Let’s talk about the amazing fact that he tells men not to take advantage of their situation and neglect their wives. He even says God will not listen to their prayers if they don’t consider their wives properly. This is the Christian ideal and it has been lived out more and more faithfully, culminating in the early days of this country. But the feminists deride this type of honor as they separate women from their children, with scalpals and the lure of the office.
I just can’t imagine Jesus showing up in 1968 and telling the Church that the main problem is that there aren’t more women in the work force. You can tell because when he created them male and female he made women to love babies, to nurture babies, and to want to stay home with their babies. It’s built in. And every example to the contrary is gut wrenching evil. Despite generations of lies being fed to us these facts are still born out even in our culture. When given the choice, women go into fields dealing with people and children, like nursing, teaching and the social ‘sciences’. Men go into the fields dealing with things, engineering, construction and the hard sciences. Jesus isn’t going to encourage anyone to send their children to a mass education plant run by the government, so that their mothers can go to work. Which is why he gave us these natural impulses and his Word. Which is very clear, don’t fraternize with the evil world, stay separate, raise your children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord(Eph. 6:4), teach them as you walk, sit, stand, work, eat, and every other time to follow the commands of God(Deut. 11:19). If you don’t—Millennials.
Paying women less does not mean that women are worth less as humans, because working and making money are not the most important things in life. If only we didn’t worship our work, and money, if instead we valued vibrant family and Church life, this wouldn’t be an issue. But we have followed the followers of Marx too far, in making the worker-employee relationship the highest that there is. Instead of realizing that there is evil in the world because of sin, and that the solution is the Gospel of Jesus the Christ. We try to fix the world by fixing the problems of the workingman. And so we have a whole country of Neo Christian Marxists complaining about their jobs on social media, instead of pushing back the Darkness and spreading the Light to the entire word. Rats crawling over each other to get the next career, instead of servants pouring themselves out to tell the whole world the Good News: Jesus conquered Sin and Death, to make peace with all men. Your career isn’t going to make you happy, and you wife’s career isn’t going to make you, her or the next generation happy. It does make Planned Parenthood happy, however. Your career isn’t the purpose of your life, your life is to serve God. And sex isn’t the purpose of marriage, it’s to be fruitful and produce Godly offspring. And we need to start building a culture which does this, right away. There are more than enough professional psychologists fighting for their desks, as they peddle more products to our children which rot their brains and their teeth. We have plenty of female statisticians enslaving us with more rules and regulations in the name of safety. How about becoming a mom and saving the world?
A wise woman builds her home,
but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.
–Proverbs 14:1